Question by ~anonymous~: WHY DO I HAVE TO HAVE SO MANY RULES?
I apologize that this is so long but thanks so much for reading and answering!
My fiance & i live together & we love each other very much. he has so many good qualities about him that i love, there r just some other ones that i am kind of concerned that this could turn into a physically violent relationship. What do u think?
Here are some of my rules that i have: He said that he needs to be very possessive of me cuz i am only his, he said that he needs to be very controlling of me cuz he said that i don’t think very good & that he needs to think for the 2 of us, he’s says he’s a very jealous person, but i am wondering if it’s cuz i am 24 & he is 39 and is just afraid of losing me, he has isolated me from all my friends cuz a couple of them started saying that i should leave him cuz he is very possessive of me & he said that if they were “real” friends they wouldn’t stick their nose in other peoples lives & so he told me that it’s best if i don’t have any friends cuz he’s worried that they will drill that into my head that i need to leave him & he’s worried that i will actually listen to them and leave him, (which is not true, i have told him many times that i would never leave him cuz i love him very much.), one of them comes to our house with her boyfriend and as soon as they leave (cuz she’s not allowed to stay and hang out with me) i have to call him at work and tell him that they left, I don’t work cuz he doesn’t want me to, I stay at home and do everything a housewife is supposed to do, he works and say for example i have to go to the grocery store, i have to call & get his permission before i leave, i only have an hour at the most to go and come back, as soon as i get back i have to call him and tell him that i’m home, when he calls, if i don’t answer the phone he gets extremely mad and gives me the “silent treatment” for a little while when he comes home from work, after he’s done giving me the silent treatment he’ll tell me that this is the last time that it happens that it better not happen again, he won’t let me go to the gym by myself cuz he doesn’t want other guys to look at me, when i go and visit my family (who live about 10 mins from where we do), i only have an hour to go and be back home, i have to get his permission first before i can go anywhere or do anything. He says that i need to obey him and we won’t have any problems. He says that he would never become physically violent towards me cuz he loves so much and wants to be with me forever that he just couldn’t do that. These are just some of the rules that i can think of right now. Where do u see this relationship going if i stay with him and we get married?

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Answer by Anne M
I tried to read this, really I did, but you do need to put paragraphs and use capitals at the beginning of a new sentence fo what you wrote to make sense.

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Question by ~anonymous~: RULES? WHY DO I HAVE SO MANY RULES?
I apologize that this is so long but thanks so much for reading and answering!
My fiance & i live together & we love each other very much. he has so many good qualities about him that i love, there r just some other ones that i am kind of concerned that this could turn into a physically violent relationship. What do u think?
Here are some of my rules that i have: He said that he needs to be very possessive of me cuz i am only his, he said that he needs to be very controlling of me cuz he said that i don’t think very good & that he needs to think for the 2 of us, he’s says he’s a very jealous person, but i am wondering if it’s cuz i am 24 & he is 39 and is just afraid of losing me, he has isolated me from all my friends cuz a couple of them started saying that i should leave him cuz he is very possessive of me & he said that if they were “real” friends they wouldn’t stick their nose in other peoples lives & so he told me that it’s best if i don’t have any friends cuz he’s worried that they will drill that into my head that i need to leave him & he’s worried that i will actually listen to them and leave him, (which is not true, i have told him many times that i would never leave him cuz i love him very much.), one of them comes to our house with her boyfriend and as soon as they leave (cuz she’s not allowed to stay and hang out with me) i have to call him at work and tell him that they left, I don’t work cuz he doesn’t want me to, I stay at home and do everything a housewife is supposed to do, he works and say for example i have to go to the grocery store, i have to call & get his permission before i leave, i only have an hour at the most to go and come back, as soon as i get back i have to call him and tell him that i’m home, when he calls, if i don’t answer the phone he gets extremely mad and gives me the “silent treatment” for a little while when he comes home from work, after he’s done giving me the silent treatment he’ll tell me that this is the last time that it happens that it better not happen again, he won’t let me go to the gym by myself cuz he doesn’t want other guys to look at me, when i go and visit my family (who live about 10 mins from where we do), i only have an hour to go and be back home, i have to get his permission first before i can go anywhere or do anything. He says that i need to obey him and we won’t have any problems. He says that he would never become physically violent towards me cuz he loves so much and wants to be with me forever that he just couldn’t do that. These are just some of the rules that i can think of right now. Where do u see this relationship going if i stay with him and we get married?

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Answer by mj
if he really love you and trust you he must give you some freedom and let you do what ever you like
you are not his slave !!!!!

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